Free wheeling dare devils

Often my kids have the ability to almost stop my heart with their crazy stunts. Yesterday I watched 16yr old Zan doing back flips off a 4m high rock above a water hole in the river. He then encouraged 11yr old Rain to jump off as well.

I must admit that I jumped too. It was fun and exhilarating but I think a part of my motivation was to prove that I'm not a boring 38yr old mum sitting on the sidelines, passed participating because I'm too old and 'responsible'.

But watching the kids perform stunts can at times bring on a bit of 'mother anxiety'.

Today 6yr old T was doing back flips into the local swimming pool. Then this afternoon at home he created the Aerial Half pipe. (see video below)

Even Tui at age two does things that make people cringe in their fear for her safety, their assumption that kids are not born knowing how to keep them selves safe, with an acute sense of what they are capable of. She will happily push a chair up to the kitchen bench, select a sharp knife from the draw and cut up an orange for herself to eat. Because she has never been told not to, she has never been told "don’t use knives or you will cut yourself!" Comments like these erode a child's confidence in their abilities, it sets up negative outcomes for them, if you are told often enough that you will fall or will cut yourself then chances are you will.

And although my heart jumps up into my mouth sometimes and I have to bite back words, (that come unbidden from my own childhood) words that you hear parents saying way too often, I feel so proud of my kids.
A great Aussie example of these words is "Don't do that! You'll break your bloody neck!"

I'm proud that they are free to do stuff. They push their physical bodies, they test their courage, imagine incredible feats and all with no interference from me. I’ve have tried hard to never tell my kids negative outcomes, sometimes I have suggested modifications for safety but mostly they work it all out for themselves.

I love my free wheeling dare devil kids.

A tree, a bike and a rope

This morning we found this weird looking fungi in the yard. We'd never seen one before and while having a close look at it noticed that it stinks...Rain gagged when she smelled it.

We then went and looked it up in our trusty fungi book and found out that it is rare around our area and that it smells like rotten flesh!!! Well, we'd already found that bit out!

We then took a car load of kids down the river and after lots of huffing and puffing got all the boats and rafts blown up.

Then Mr T came up with a great new extreme sport this afternoon. He calls it bike sledding!

Dancing Queen

Tui loves dancing. When any music starts to play she just can't help herslef but start to groove...

Nitro Tramponatics

Zan made this video last week and I love it! A great example of unschooling creativity. It stars Zan, two of his friends and right at the end Mr T comes in for a front flip!
No one told Zan to make a video, no one made him learn how to use the computer programs, no one made him do any of this but he did it because it was fun. Now if you wanted to you could disect the project into key learning areas. For example this video might cover computer skills, art, design, music etc, but we don't need to do that because that is not what is important to me. What the most important aspect of this is that Zan had FUN and while he was having fun learnt heaps about something that interests him.
It's called Nitro Tramponatics.
Enjoy...

First Steps