Monday, April 13

Unschooling Credo

Someone pointed this out to me. I wish I wrote it. I was going to write a post about unschooling...I'll still get around to it soon but this is nice...

I am an unschooler, and so is my family. Please, indulge me for a few moments while I explain. I am an unschooler. I believe in my child's ability and desire to learn. I believe that she is an intelligent, capable human being, and I believe that when the time for her to learn a certain thing arrives, that she will learn it. I am an unschooler. I do not believe in force feeding my child a bunch of useless facts and rote learning that will be forgotten next week, next month, next year. I am confident that when my child learns a thing, that it stays learned, because she chose to learn it and put her entire being into discovering what its secrets and mysteries are. I am an unschooler. I refuse to force my child to grow up before she is ready. I will not put her into situations where she is forced to compete instead of play and learn. I cannot push her to achieve and in so doing lose sight of the child in the quest for rewards. I am an unschooler. I encourage my child to be a self starter and self aware. I guide her gently and offer assistance when she requests it. I do not tell her that she is doing it wrong just because that isn't how it was taught to me. I am an unschooler. I threw away the clock years ago. I do not believe that a child can learn to read only between the hours of 10 and 11, or 1 to 2. Our days are a crazy quilt of activity, ranging from a day doing nothing but drawing pictures or playing computer games to doing fifty different activities ranging from staring at a snail to counting the number of rice grains in a cup. I am an unschooler. Our textbooks include old catalogues, junk mail, and encyclopedias. Our on hand science materials are made up of a beaker, some magnets, and a few goldfish. We create our learning materials and we buy them. We find them in fields and in flea markets. We see the educational value in everything, because children will learn from anything that you hand them, even a Barbie doll. Please don't try to force your curriculum on us. We don't need it. I am an unschooler. Our family has its own moral values which we share openly among ourselves, and with those who are genuinely interested. We do not want to have our souls saved, or our lifestyle condemned. If you wish to be our friend and share our journey, we welcome you, no matter what your philosophy. All that we ask is that you allow us the space to be ourselves just as we will give that to you. Share with us, please, but don't ram it into us? I am an unschooler. My child has many friends of all ages, and from all walks of life. She is not a person to be pitied for her "isolation". She is a person experiencing the best that life can give and enjoying it to its fullest. She is happy, healthy, and well adjusted. She is bright, eager, and intensely interested in her world and universe. She is incredible, and she is a source of amazing joy and interest to everybody who knows her. I am an unschooler. And I am glad to be one.


Dina said...


Thanks for posting that : )

Naomi said...

that was wonderful :)

Makes me think unschooling will be the best option for our DS, it just makes sense!

Anne said...

Wow! you have articulated
how I have been feeling about my kids schooling situation lately..

This suits my middle child. He is a very self directed learner and is teaching himself (and me LOL) about cloud formations at the moment - he has moved on from flags.

I'm scared that The public school will kill his love of learning like it did for my daughter. That is why we are at a Steiner School but it's a lot of money for us. She loves it there and she dosen't want to be home schooled. But I'm thinking about it for my son.

Valleysprite said...

love it, Ariad. if only everyone could read that before they make uninformed comments/judgements about us!

Ariad said...

Exactly VS. DP tinks we huld put up a copy on our front gate!

The Fairy Shoemaker said...

7 years on that just about sums up having my children at home and watching them learn... arent we so lucky to be able to watch the magic!
Wonderful post, and well done whoever wrote the original, well done you for passng it on, Ren x
Hope it gives others the strength to give their children another way to learn and grow naturally.

Stephanie said...

Yay for hollerin' it from the rooftops. :)

sue said...


Allana said...

Thankyou for linking back to this and for sharing it originally. I hope you dont mind but I have reposted it on my blog as it resonated deeply with us as we start/continue our journey into unschooling. I have credited and linked back to you as the original reposter, and am now happily following your blog :)
love and light, Allana

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